In order to talk about an asteroid, one must isolate it. This ascendant descendant conjunction alone does a very interesting thing in the chart. One person is kind of riding the other one in this. You can have Mars/Pluto with a fling and not feel a thing in your emotions.We have the same kind of weighting with the conjunction, trine, opposition and square as we did above. With mercury and Uranus in Scorpio. Before I leave this subject, I will add my theory. This aspect almost certainly speaks to karma from a past life marriage. Eros conjunction sun and lucky point.. and mercury, uranus, pluto and venus in house seven, libra. Eros - Vesta Lyn Astrology No point living in fear for aspects that may not play out. Yet despite this fearsome reputation she was often dismissed as " a minor Babylonian wind deity " or similar. Black Moon Lilith/Eros in Synastry - ProBoards Lovely, Lo! We are not discussing potential long-term compatibility between the sexes, not the love match-rather, signs of initial sexual attraction and knee-jerk reactions between two people. Eros-Psyche: Eros and Psyche are natural mates. Lilith Conjunct Venus Synastry - Transformative - Home - Access New Age Eros: Synastry Aspects . I have this aspect with someone Im seeing. The pairing can easily fulfill the other's sexual desires and unlock some of their naughty fantasies. I have to always be honest. Moon Conjunct Eros: Natal, Synastry, Transit | Astrology.com You are very welcome, my Friend. It always starts this way. Yes, their Moons are trine both in Earth signs. OkI really cant comment on the sign, per se. Karmic astrology synastry is suddenlyreally interesting when you want to look at your own relationship. His Eros is on her Descendant and her Eros makes a square to his Sun and conjuncts his Vertex. And posting my charf sounds like fun, I just might . We`ve known each other for a few months and generally it is a good relationship. YES, your Deja conj his NN will make you his victim, to put it really directly. Eros in Aries makes a person love the chase. Lilith is not dark, per se, Friend. As such, I would be careful and watchful. That doesnt mean youve never been married. Thats fatalistic and leaves the image that the entire rest of the charts and people themselves are completely victim to two asteroids that are being portrayed as always playing out when they really do not always do so. , Not a sag actually, but a virgo with tons of leo in her chart, lol. That is my commitment to my readers. With the Lilith conjunct sun, the Sun person is seduced by the other Lilith person. hmm well I dont really have his birth time lol so I just went by the general aspects, so I can see what he does to my moon and where his planets fall in my houses but not vice versa. In fact, it is the opposite. If one does not see any abuse when this happens, my opinion would be that they dont know the person enough lol. I am not asking you to do mine either. Having a planet you have on your 7th house falling on their 1st house and a planet in your 1st house falling on their 7th house and vice-versa which would create an opposite between the two planets in the synastry chart. My venus is conjunct someone's eros right now. His Amor is in trine and sextile to a few of her inner planets. Ami is an insightful astrology. I'm so cappy Knowflake . There was some sort of karma created, whether the relationship was painful or whether one person abandoned it. I only didnt like that its being portrayed as complete truth that will always occur, when its definitely not the case. You example above is only if a woman has Dejanira conjunct a mans ASC, Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars, Venus or NN, you will be his victim. Any feedback on the roles being reversed? I feel like it helps me. Since Aries is ruled by Mars, there's a . or you consider just the closer orbit? Eros and Psyche were mythical lovers, and were brought together by fate. Keep in mind that conjunctions are the most important, but other aspects can occasionally speak to marriage. From the outsider's perspective, Eros and the Ascendant person will seem as if they are living the romantic experience only witnessed in films. Dark sexual relationship synastry top 5 | Signing. Click here for instructions on how to enable JavaScript in your browser. We enter the month of February, with lust, love and passion. I reply to the comments out of order because I do it on the central comment form. Priapus is likewise called a "minor rustic God" or even "an oversexed gardening God." Theyre both devoted and kind people and Ive known her since we were teens. Or can my Sun hurt the person. My Nessus square his Venus What use is reams of esoteric info for real life applications. Lilith on the ic is one of the more potent lilith synastry to have even in the composite. Is there any way this could play out in a positive manner or should I watch my back? If other aspects and planets in the chart point to marriage, then it was probably a romantic, attractive marriage where the couple did not see each other all day, did not share a bedroom, had a large household staff, lived apart, etc. xx, haha you are so cute, I like you and you write very simple and easy to understand. However, Moon/Pluto in conjunction does not have to turn bad. Keep an eye on anyone who is near her. He was considered irresistible. How fortunate we are to have such a wonderful body of info to help us! Synastry When a person's natal moon forms a conjunction with someone's Eros, or vice versa, this can be a very sexualbut very intenserelationship. there is no contact in real life anymore but the connection via the sexual chakra (either sacral or root chakra ) is still there and very strong. It is just the North Node, after all, not a personal planet. . This totally depends on someone as a person. They have a very imaginative sex life. Sun sextile/trine/conjunct Moon is often found in marriage synastry charts. Lilith cops the craziest projections - that she could cause miscarriages or tried to wreck men's marriages via 'erotic nightmares' and so on. You both feel admiration for each other. To be honest, few people overcome Nessus. what would result from this? Ceres in Synastry, Signs, Houses, Retrograde - Astrology The same with nessus conjunct ASC? We also had a Juno Vertex conjunction. This pairing can form a deep emotional bond, especially through physical intimacy. . Yes, this is all very true but the charts exist outside of time, too. It is the passion of lovers and the pure, primal love of a mother for her baby. There is attraction based on dark forces like rage, pain and abuse. And The issue is telling people that are in healthy relationships or people that are around a couple in a healthy relationship, that those aspects will certainly play out no matter what. Again, telling people to get out of or stay out of relationships with an aspect that you in particular think will cause them harm is not healing in any aspect of the word. Double whammy of Mars-Uranus in our synastry chart. Not good, my Friend. Saturn conj Mars in Scorpio could produce a kinky kind of thing. Both of them are loaded with sexual power, so their interaction is often explosive. If the man is the Dejanira, he would be the victim. This is not a dark aspect, either. His dejanira is conjunct with my sun. So the theory doesnt check out. What about mars, Saturn and Jupiter in Virgo? I asked if I could post their charts but my friend isnt comfortable with it. It wasn't until he began to withhold sex from me that I finally crumbled. Sexual Synastry - Astrology 42 We also have mars opposite pluto (Im pluto) in synastry. What about nessus exactly conjunct BML in synastry the man is nessus (9h), Wow Is there a super attraction that feels so strong that it will blow you off your feet? To learn more about the past life, look at the aspect, the houses in which the planets sit, and the signs. It is sad! What if a man has Dejanira conjunct a womans Sun? For teaching purposes, one must break things down, so it may seem like it is contrary but it is really not, imo, Sandy. The charts tell all. I generally cannot stand them, and their tendency to be arogant and conceited towards anyone who doesnt think the way they do does come across as downright abusive to me. I have only had this fantasy with him along with begging him and many many other fantasies. You may be fated to marry. My dejanira is in opposition to his sun and without any other aspects. Do you think I need to worry about the Nessus/BML conjunction or about abusing the poor wounded birds I keep looking for? . Eros in synastry : r/astrology - reddit Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. 1) What would it mean when my nessus conjuncts his nessus? If you want to end it, be upfront and be kind. Who does whom, so to speak? In the rare instance where these two do meet, the results are truly awe inspiring, changing our lives in intense and lasting ways. Romantic Conjunctions in the 12th House If you see any intense conjunctions between the Sun, the Moon, Juno, the South Node, Saturn, Venus, Mars, Lilith, etc. vertex conjunct moon and ascendant in scorpio can make it dark too? I seem to be one of the rare people doing it lol. Is there anything I can do to help her? I just found out my abusers Moon is 1 degree conjunct my Dejanira. I do Astrology the way that I would want to learn it. Is it relevant? It "wakes up those areas inside of us and causes us to express them sexually, free from the restrictions of reality. I seemed to be destined to study and use Nessus and Deja. There is the potential to take things to another realm when the aspects are favorable. The chart allows one to see oneself. Would you say that a double whammy Nessus OPPOSITE Juno is something dangerous too ? The Fortuna would, likely, bring good fortune to the vertex person, likely in the arena of money. He may abuse her and it would be seen publicly. Who would bring who abuse? I have very wide-orbed Eros-Lilith contacts (not conjunctions) in my two last relationships (they are Eros, I'm Lilith), but both relationships were so 8th house-oriented and Plutonian that it's hard to tell where Lilith comes in. Pluto conjunct Sun synastry indicates a powerful and transformative relationship. This aspect can bring intense emotions, profound personal growth, and the potential for both positive and negative experiences. xxx, This may make Nessus and what it means i.e abuse, something that is a deep subject with you and on one which you contemplate. I've never experienced it myself, but have read that Lilith/Pluto contacts are also intensely sexual and even violent (particularly the opposition). Asteroids touching asteroids are not as powerful as asteroids touching persona; points on the chart such as the ASC, Moon, Sun, Venus etc. Can my Fortuna have some healing effect? This really highlights this magnetic quality to this conjunction and creates a situation where each individual holds the . Thank you for your comment. Hi I am having a hard time following your questions, Julia. Is this you? My guess is that it would be an obsessive relationship where both would try to hurt each other? Also, I discovered that my daughter has Dejanira conjunct her 2H Virgo Moon(3 deg. Their chemistry is obvious even after all these years but she did recently reveal that some light BDSM play is involved. It is like sky diving. I think Chiron is extremely important in any synastry chart because it speaks to the deepest wounds created between two people. I have no vested interest in any asteroid or any placement being any way other than my being able to help people. Moon/Pluto in a trine is very powerful, too. I love you and hope you write to me to say hello or to ask questions. As a result, this aspect can feel like opening a can of worms that literally fly, not crawl, out of the unconscious. Synastry: Sun square Pluto, sun conjunct Amor, sun conjunct psyche, Pluto conjunct moon, Venus square Pluto, (they have Venus square Pluto)natal also, mars sextile Venus, Mars conjunct Sappho and trine Uranus (they have mars square Uranus natal mars) tine Jupiter, Venus conjunct Neptune and sun conjunct Venus and Eros square Pluto, Eros conjunct kaali, Venus conjunct kaali all opposite Nessus!! I have my nessus conjunct with my true node. Mars/Pluto is more primal in a pure sexual way than Moon/Pluto which is more emotional and much more emotionally bonded. I am curious about the dejanira/nessus aspects. Also, how does moon conjunct pluto in synastry differ to moon conjunct pluto in composite. There`s also lot of growth and sweetness and nothing that amounts to abuse. This is a difficult aspect, but the couple often meets in this life to try and heal the wound. I would have to consider the scenarios more. You are not an astrology god that holds the key to the entire truth. This is based on experience and charts, as are all my theories. As you know, or can find from my directory, Eros and Psyche are my favorite asteroids. The opposition would be the same but not as locked in or as intense. 1) What does it mean to have dejanira 13 in conjuction with my ascendant 12? The puzzle pieces are coming together for me.. finally. How about choose one aspect and I will try to help, T. Not to be rude, but this is incredibly fatalistic. The relationship seems to end in a certain way, too. Thank you, Kay <3 I always question the role of house overlays and given this topic the 8th house comes to mind. I will try to maintain rock solid boundaries and not get led into any weirdness as nothing is amiss yet. my mars is there too though, trining his Scorpio pluto 0.25 we have physical heat but plenty of fighting. We are to take the blueprint that is given and then do what we want with it. I have BML in my 1st house in Scorpio along with Venus and Saturn All are in conjunction with BML. Mars is the planet of passion, desire and sexual drive and Eros is the physical act of sex Re: Lilith conjunct . M. What are the exact Sun/pluto aspects Maria? You, as the Pluto in the trine with his Sun and venus could kind of see through him lol, Thank you Amy for your reply We are both passionate, but luckily, by nature, not violent people thank God . To make it simple for those of you who are on the same path, Ive rounded up the top 5 placements that indicate a past life marriage. It would simply be different. 1. This question would need me to see the whole chart because what I do is put it all together and come out with a practical answer. Most Astrologers dont tell things straight like I do. I also have Nessus in 22 Virgo exactly opposite my Sun, conjunct my Asc in 18 Virgo, and I am NOT an abuser, unless its in self defense.Either way, I dont enjoy hurting people. the Moons will make for best friends. My jupiter conjunct his sun and venus. For your daughter, watch out she does not get sexually abused. We need to look at the whole chart to see the whole story. That would be my guess. In some past life, at some point, weve been married to almost everyone weve dated or had some type of relationship with. The first would be Nessus. Just from reading this, I think it looks very good but I really need to see the wheel as it is easier. Hi! Things DO offset things but one must look at everything to see a final answer which is my goal when doing charts.I am not trying to sell myself here, just trying to show that your question is too deep for a quick answer, my Friend. You do not have to do their chart. They have transcended Nessus conj Dejanira, which is a new situation for me to see. What conjuncts your Aura? That being said, the charts WILL play out, imo and ime. I know there are astrologers who make every aspect positive but I dont think that is real and real is what heals and real is what gets people mad at you too lol. How we respond to this synastry contact has a lot to do with our own relationship to power and sexuality. under what theme of the forum? Well, I have been thinking about the situation. I have moon opposition pluto. Lilith-Mars Aspects in Synastry (conjunction, sextile, trine, opposition, square) Lilith-Mars aspects are all about clash of desires. Thanks for your posts Ami. Is there a good part to Nessus/deja conjunct? How will these aspects play out? I am so thankful to have such a resource like this for guidance. His 8th house Nessus is conjunct my 7th house Dejanira (2s), opposite my moon (-1s) and square my mercury (2a). M. % would be more ambient but felt imo Maria dear. You don't need to BELIEVE in Jesus to come here and/or to contact me. What does this conjunction mean in a synastry? I think you will have the urge to abuse. Does nessus still be working as a tendency to abuse? The Nessus is usually the abuser but in this case, it was the son. I would say that this relationship would be INTENSE but in a beautiful way.Please, tell me about it! Posts: 9778 From: Death Star . Hmm If they are conjunct in synastry, a soul mate connection is indicated. More about Synastry (relationship Astrology) Intermediate and advanced students of Astrology might enjoy our article, SoulMate . Im not accepting you scaring people into running from possible happy, fulfilling relationships over one aspect that none of us even know how it can manifest in millions of ways. Playing with someones emotions when these aspects are involved could lead to bad things such as violence. I remember the first time I discovered how to read a synastry chart; I worked with mine and my boyfriends for about 6 hours. orb). Eros Conjunct the Midheaven: This synastry aspect will be quite powerful for both parties since it will impact the way that the world views them. Lots of good aspects so thats why the Nessus Dejanira confuses me. 2021 - ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. . Thank you a bunch for being so sweet Free~ I do agree that Ami is quite insightful, however I would like to chime in and say that I do not make every aspect positive I make every aspect neutral because the stars and planets are not going to tell you something is bad or make something bad. Lilith is looking for sacred sex. Eros is looking for his equal to explore the realm of creative intimacy. 3) Angles in the houses & aspects. That is why it feels so life and death. Lastly, with me having moon conjunct neptune in my natal and venus in my 12th house, does that make me similar to venus in pisces xxx I ask because I attract men with mars in pisces and men who have pisces as a descendant/7th house , Hi Ami, I dont think you can draw the concrete conclusion you did from these aspects. First of all Lilith is for . Dejanira (female) conjunct Saturn (male) Thanks :), Sexual Attraction | Cafe Astrology .com In fact, it is the opposite. Do we exile her from consciousness or build her a sanctuary for potent, creative expression? The ex that abused me while I was pregnant had his Nessus conjunct my MC. He may have little sympathy for her weakness. To me, it always is. To summarize, I would say that Mars/Pluto could be passionate sex and passionate emotions but no soul.If a chart had no Moon aspects and Mars/Pluto aspects, I would say it would be a fling. The Five Darkest, Sexual Aspects in Synastry If you have a dominant Dejanira, you will be a victim. How do you relate to all the men who have their Pluto there? However, this person would have to play it out before he overcame it. Eros represents what turns us on. Lilith conjunct Ascendant The lilith person knows exactly how they effect the ic and can really play with them over time. For example, I am the moon person and my mars also falls in his 8th and much of what you described for moon/pluto conjunction sounds like us. His natal mars, lilith, pluto conjunction is conjunct my ic and I've distanced myself from him knowing that he has wayyyy too much power over me, but every time I see him I can barely stand and immediately start shaking I am glad my post was helpful! When the son grows up, he will likely be the abuser,too. Relationships that provoke her and Eros, although excruciatingly potent at times, serve as a meeting place for both divine figures. I often am able to get away in time, and at other times I can get away only to a certain degree. The Moon person feels comforted by the Sun person's energy and the Sun person feels like they can be vulnerable with the Moon person. for example a 1.46.. or 2? Further, there is such a thing such as free will. I also have moon trine neptune, venus conjunction chiron snd more aspects to do with empathy. Good afternoon, thank you for this article Now, we come to things that could really make the relationship dark. This was likely a more romantic or sexual relationship instead of something that sustained itself day to day. But, I will take sides with Sydney on this issue. and should I post the picture of the chart (I usually get it from astro.com)? A Sun conjunct Lilith transit highlights the power traits like charisma, magnetism, emotional force and leadership qualities of the Sun. It is really rocking my world right now <3. Partners switch roles? It is not as intense as the conjunction but very intense, nonetheless. Making people fear being in relationships over tiny aspects that do not have an incredibly high chance of playing out is not healing to others. It is a pleasure to be here. I have my DEJA conjuncion JUNO in my house 6 Ten Conjunctions to the Vertex in Synastry - My Christian Psychic Welcome, Britt. Crow Symbolism: Spiritual Meaning Of The Crow, 6 Effective Studying Spells For Exams, Class, & Enhanced Focus, Winter Solstice & Yule: Rituals, Traditions, And Ways To Celebrate. Many people say they have overcome things but I watch their actions and see they are lying. 12 degrees is WAY too much to be conj the ASC, my Friend. He has a strong nessus (conjunct with his sun + true node in cancer ).